To know oneself is, above all, to know what one lacks.
— Flannery O’Connor
Discovering myself and growing in my understanding of life
through the intricacies and complexities of the Enneagram.
Marinating in its wisdom
and finding much needed growth,
growth that I’ve been wanting and craving for, for so long.
photo Albert Watson
I recently had the privilege of hearing Michael Messenger, President of World Vision Canada speak.
When he visits the country of Zimbabwe, the people there will greet him in their native language of Ndebele with, “Saliboni.” (means “I see you”)
To which he’ll respond, “Sikhona.” (means “I am here to be seen”)
“What I love about this greeting is that instead of checking to see how you are, it actually starts by affirming the worth and value that you have as a person.
It’s impossible to say “I see you” and then open yourself up to be seen without recognizing that the person that you’re about to speak to has a right to be there, an inherent worth, an inherent dignity.” — Michael Messenger
What a challenge this is to us in our western world.
The idea of truly stopping to “see” someone when you interact with them
to make the effort to connect and engage with them on a deeper level is something we rarely do.
I truly believe the people of Zimbabwe have something great to teach us –
when interacting with others we too need to say “Saliboni”
value their presence
and “see” them.
# life lessonImage: artsy.net
“Some things just fill your heart without trying.” — Unknown
I miss my little dog.
I miss his quiet presence
and steady friendship.
I miss his peaceful spirit
and undconditional love.
I miss my lil’ boy P so much.
photo Patrick Demarchelier/Vogue
In your Easter bonnet, with all the frills upon it, you’ll be the grandest lady in the Easter parade.
— Irving Berlin
Grateful that I don’t have to be wearing a show-stopping Easter bonnet or be in any parade
to be the grandest version of me.
Heather Horton, “Morning at the Stone House”
The sun was warm but the wind was chill.
You know how it is with an April day.
— Robert Frost
Especially when you’re not here
miss you – miss you.